6 Strategies for Respectful Relationships
Nothing puts fire into the belly of parents faster than a child being disrespectful. When our kids ignore us, stomp their feet, slam the door, or say “NO!”, it gets under our skin in a way that ...
Should our young children have boyfriends or girlfriends at school?
In August, 2016, a 10-year- old girls’ letter to her teacher went viral after she implored the school to let students have boyfriends and girlfriends. During the previous term, staff had spoken to ...
Does Sugar Make Children Go Crazy?
Growing up in my house it was the red cordial. One of my friends swears it’s the chocolate. And a relative who will not be named here blames sugar, full stop. She said, and I quote: “Once the ...
Our son’s mood swings and rude behaviours are impossible to deal with
Hi Dr Justin, We have been asking friends, family members and even Dr Google (!) for help when it comes to dealing with our 3yr 10month old son. We also have a 1-year-old son, and we sometimes ...
5 ways to become the best parent you can be
Think of the times that your parenting has been its best. Those times where you were unconditionally there for your child and it felt right. When I ask parents to tell me about those times, these ...
Why is 2am ‘wake-up time’ for my toddler?
Hi Dr Justin, We’re going crazy. Our daughter is our second child, just turned 2 last week, and is an overall delight in every way except for these night wakings. She goes to sleep happily ...
I work full-time. How do I connect with my kids?
Dear Dr Justin, I work full-time and have a toddler, and am keenly reminded every day of how much I missing out in terms of his growth, etc. Are there some tips you have for people like me on how ...
Competition: Good or bad for kids?
Do Children Do Better or Worse with Competition?
I consider myself anti-competitive. I do not like competition, and I believe that it is particularly unhelpful for helping children achieve their ...
My girl who’s 2 just won’t poo
Hi Dr Justin, I have started toilet training my daughter who will be three in April. She’s really good at doing her wees on the toilet and potty but not so good when it comes to poo. She will get...
How do I stop the cycle of abuse?
Hi Justin, I am a mother of five - ages 19, 17, 12, seven and four - and I’m struggling with the younger two who are from my second partner. I am a single mum. I don’t get much family help and ...