Resilience in Children

The Big Debate: Should you delay your child’s start in school? 

Published: 19 Nov 2018
The Big Debate: Should you delay your child’s start in school? 

The debate among parents as to whether they should delay their child’s start in school is a big one.

Should we start them early because childcare is so expensive? Or because they’re not stimulated enough at home? Or because parents are eager to sink their teeth back into paid employment?

Should we hold them back (it’s called red-shirting) because we’re not sure they’re ready and we want them to develop more? Or because all of those articles say older is better? Or because we know they’ll be bigger and better?

In 2017 Aussie researcher Dr Amanda Mergler found that the question of when to send our little ones to school is actually causing anxiety for parents! Great parents want to make sure they are giving their kids the best start in life. But our best intentions are creating stress and pressure for us and our kids. 

Delaying school 

The school starting age varies from state to state but under current laws there may be kids starting school who are as young as four-and-a-half years old. With the adoption of the National Curriculum, these kids are expected to do the same work and behave in a structured environment with the same skill as kids who are as old as six when they begin. Clearly there are significant developmental differences between a six year-old and a child 18 months her junior.

A recent study out of Stanford University found that kids who weren’t enrolled in school until the age of six scored better on tests of ‘executive function’. Also known as self-control, it’s the thing that helps kids focus, be aware, manage time and deal well with distractions. Self control (and executive function more generally) is crucial to successful learning and development. Another study demonstrated that delaying formalised schooling until age seven reduces inattention and hyperactivity in kids by 73% (measured at age 11), which again boosts self control and ability to learn.

When it comes to starting school, the best evidence suggests we’re starting them too young. So, are parents who delay starting their kids in school on the right track?

Well, yes… and no. 

The Finnish example 

Scandinavian countries are at the forefront of enrolling kids in school later in life. They’re also at the forefront of optimal educational outcomes on a global scale. In Finland, compulsory schooling doesn’t begin until age seven and most kids begin their formal schooling at age eight. Yet, on Pisa tests (which rank nations on educational achievement) Finnish pupils produce some of the world’s highest scores in maths, science and reading. 

But here is the most important thing: their success is not because of the age they start school, but how they spent those years up until formal schooling began. And for Finnish kids, that time is spent at home, or in a form of pre-kindergarten, where the focus is on play and social skills. Maths, reading and writing don’t come in until much later. And this focus on play pays off. 

Pasi Sahlberg, Finnish educator and scholar says that

"a play-based program of fun, physical activity and learning… is crucial because it allows a focus on whole child development. Children learn social skills, creativity, empathy and how to use their imagination for learning." 

Study after study has affirmed the importance of play for our children’s physical and mental health. It helps boost language development, problem solving, risk management and independent learning skills. It is linked to improvements in academic skills and classroom behaviour, and it leads to healthy emotional attitudes.

Until about the age of six or better yet, seven, children don’t need too much structure. In fact, they should not be doing ANY structured class time, not even around numeracy and literacy. Instead they need the freedom to be creative and to explore the world around them. Just like the Finnish students have. 

The National Curriculum 

I’m sure some of you are thinking, ‘But Justin, that’s not how schooling works in Australia!’ And you’re right. With the adoption of the National Curriculum, most of the play-based learning has gone out the window. It has been replaced with numeracy and literacy benchmarks, science achievement standards and even includes a ‘digital technologies’ assessment (I’ve written about problems with technology and screen time here).

And this is a problem for our kids.

Australian parents are in an untenable position. In an ideal world parents would be the ones to give this kind of play-based, exploratory and creatively-enriching environment to our children. But kids are legally required to attend school and, from a financial perspective, to own a home in most of our major cities requires that most families have two parents working. Kids can only explore so much on a 600sqm block. 

What can you do? 

But there is much we can do. We can call on ACARA to review and revise the National Curriculum to return to a play based learning style. We can contact our state legislators and ask them to amend the school starting age. Any takers?

At home we can make sure our kids aren’t too bogged down in homework, which is empirically shown to be unhelpful prior to high school, and we can minimise the overwhelm of structured after school activities. We can ensure they get outside, and that they have space and time to think and dream. And absolutely, most importantly, we can give them plenty of time to play.

As to the answer to the big debate – yes, if your family situation permits it, delay. But not because your child doesn’t know his letters, or can’t use the toilet yet, but because the real work of childhood is play.

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